I sometimes don’t know what I am doing wrong in the relationships, or where I meet these guys that are very disrespectful and hurtful. I see my brother, he seemed to do everything right, married and happy. I was watching a show, and this woman said, “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell are you going to love anybody else.” I believe in fate, and everyone has that soul mate. I don’t want grow old with someone, and share my life with. I was watching this show “90 day finance, ” and I feel sad for a few couples. If you have the red signs, and you choose to ignore, the relationship isn’t going to turn out good. It’s been awhile since I was on a date, I wonder when?