It’s funny how you meet a guy, and you think it’s for the right reason. They are wanting to date, start a relationship. How do you know if it’s just sex or do they really want a relationship? In the beginning, it might be hard to tell, because it’s all good. He calls you, he wants to go on a date, and then what? I am not giving you anything yet. You might think, “If I don’t sleep with him, he might leave or what will he think of me.” If you give it up, he might change. He might not call you as much, you are asking when are we going out, he doesn’t make much time for you. If he is calling you because he only wants one thing, usually at night, then he isn’t for you. If you are looking for a relationship, don’t sleep with him right away. I remember dating someone for a bit, I liked him, and I thought we were in a relationship, but he wasn’t making the time to hang out or go to the movies, he was always busy with work. I knew he wasn’t really having the same interest as me, and we went our separate ways. I was in a relationship where I didn’t wait awhile, and he changed after we slept together. He didn’t call as much, he would only have time in the evening, or he just didn’t make the time period. If you want a relationship, wait…before having sex.